Spiritual Q&A Archive
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What practices can help me grow spiritually on a daily basis?
A routine that can meet you on your worst day, or your best.
Remember that your spiritual wellness comes from how well you are in yourself. You want to focus on what you can control, not what you can't. For me, that was setting up good routines that left me feeling energetically free so that I could have a free focus for my spirit team to reach me. The number one thing I'd look at, is a small routine. You want simple, and you want something that you can use even if you're stressed the heck out. Your spirituality needs to be something you can rely on even in the worst of times so you want something that makes you not think too much... so my favourite thing to do that with, is an intuition jar.
An intuition jar, is just a jar with a bunch of paper in it. But that paper, is full of things you need. I have a lot of videos on my tiktok about this, so if you're wanting more info, check out that resource, but an intuition jar is just a bunch of papers with statements on it, that are relevant to your life. Nice, and easy. You want to start easy- maybe like 20-30 pieces at first might do the trick, and get a small cute jar you're drawn to.
In my jar, I've got the names of all my fave people, I've got things like put cash aside, money is coming, etc, I've got papers for my pets, and I've got general spiritual guidance from my guides. I've got when my bills are being paid, when groceries are being paid, anything that takes stress off my back, it's in there so I can just focus on my life and be clear for my spirit team and myself. For a lot of you, this might be action things, like call your friends, go out for coffee, do an energy cleanse. For others, this might be things pertaining to your mental health, like "take a deep breath- this will turn around, cleanse your energy, there's something you're not seeing." For others, this might be something like "someone is acting shady, rethink your position.." you see where I'm going with this, just simple statements, but holy, are they PROFOUND.
And the point is, they're tailored to you. I got my spirit guides to help me write mine. You can also put in things that have a deadline, or goals you're working on in there, anything that helps you release worry! You can customize this as much as you'd like over time, too. If you're hip to your intuition, use it to build this, and if you don't understand what the statements mean right now, trust me, you will!
If you're not drawn to this, try a 1 card oracle pull on the daily. Just to check in with you.
A Dice Roll
Make a list of all of the things you need, for your mental, spiritual, emotional well being. Get a 12 sided dice, or use an app, or use 2 dice, whatever works but you want room for options. Here's an example of what it could look like:
1- Take a walk
2- Call a friend
3- Meditate
4-Cleanse your house
5- You need some quiet time
6- Get Creative
7-Book a Reading
8-Ask someone you love for support
9-Do an Oracle Reading
10-ground your energy
11-Clean
12-Read a Book
So you get where I'm heading here too, personalize this to you, but in the morning, give a roll to your dice. This process teaches you how to begin to meet your own needs, but it also teaches you the patterns of your own emotions, and how you should best respond to them. Mine has have a spirit guide meeting on it additionally, and other things, but these will be personal to you but a personal check in meeting could be great if that resonates with you. This will help you take care of you, and help your team communicate with you.
Create Opportunities for Energy Maintenance
So, it doesn't need to be super complicated but you're probably going to want to set up some good cleansing practices and some good energy hygiene practices. I'll keep this real simple because a lot of people want to make it like this huge list they can check things off of to feel good and if you're doing that you're totally missing the point that this is about you getting closer to you, not a sense of accomplishment, so keep it simple, adjust it as it works for you. Here's what I like to do.
In the morning, I listen to some Abraham Hicks, if you know you know, but particularly the morning rampage that Abraham's human is known for, Abraham is her spirit guide. That morning rampage teaches you a lot about how energy works, and for me, it has some great reminders, and the affirmations help you build strong subconscious beliefs, for me it helps me stay accountable to me.
While I'm doing that, I do a little 5 minute energy cleanse, I'll link these below for you guys as they are free resources!
And then I take a walk, with my music on.
These practices are small but they help me set up my day the way I want it to be, not dragging in yesterday, not full of complaints, but from a good place that looks forward to the gift that a day really is, that it's so easy to take for granted. And morning prayers, because... well this should just be something you do, even if it's to your spirit guides, even if it's to a deity, whatever it is you vibe with that's a higher power. Here's why.
I could do a section on this alone so I'll keep it brief.
Ask for what you want. You will be MORE of you if you have what you want. God gave you a plan. You and God's plan, are in harmonyyyyy. What you want is what God wants for you, so if you pray, and you ask God for what you want, and you take time to thank God for what you have on the daily, it will energetically attune your life, and also help lift blockages in your path.
Again, you can even ask this of your higher self! If once a day is too much for you, try once a week on a Sunday or a day that you're typically free and can really reflect and enjoy.
At night I take my last hour just for me. Since I do psychic work every day this is probably gonna be vast overkill for what you guys need, but if you have empathy, you might really benefit from this because you may just be used to all the energy you pick up. I listen to distant Reiki, I do distant Reiki on myself, listen to a soundbath, reflect on my day. etc.
After that, I do my normal human stuff, and my intuition jar reading and i"m ready to roll.
Once a week on Sunday I do a simmer pot, which is just some good 'ol magick, to be able to cleanse what I don't want from my life, and call in what I do. Just some intention setting, because that really helps me, and also some cleansing. I take an epsom salt baths with some bath salts a lovely friend gifted me (THANK YOU!! <3), to really deep clean my energy, and lastly, I take time to do something just for me, usually colouring, maybe painting, something just for me. I also throw something in the croc pot so I can be lazy on Sunday, because Sundays are not for effort, they're for resting!
This question requisition came with 2 other great questions, stay tuned! <3 I so appreciate the questions!
Ok let me get you the links down below, and these are belonging to Abraham Hicks and Melanie Beckler from Ask-Angels.com, which if you're into angels, check that out, it's a life saver full of beautiful free and paid content to help you live a more divinely guided life.
How can I decipher what my spirit guides are trying to share with me?
Firstly, let's talk about how you receive information from your spirit guides.
You will receive information from them in your non physical senses. Sight, taste, sound, smell, feel, know. And sometimes these jumble together to create super senses, like your house feels yellow for some reason. We don't ask questions. This is how the information will come in. The second way they can bring in information, is through the world around you.
Angel numbers, music, conversations, ads, people, things around you, anything in the world around you can be used. The radio, commercials... they can use just about anything, the key is, are you paying attention to it because chances are, they send us so many things we miss because our focus is not there at that moment.
Okay, so firstly, this is a loaded question, so I'm going to do my best to break it down as it does have multiple things I think are important to express.
• Keep a journal of your guidance
I don't care if it makes sense. ALL OF IT. WRITE DOWN ALL OF IT. You will see why later, and be like, oh, good thing Kayla told me that. !!
The reason is, your guidance typically does not make sense the instant you receive it. You get it BEFORE it makes sense, so you have it when the problem they want to tell you about, occurs. Sometimes this is even MONTHS OR YEARS in advance guys, and this is why at the end of your day, write down EVERYTHING. You'll have a real cute little journal of your super cool psychic predictions at worst, right? The next part, is accuracy. You will have thoughts about what it means. You'd probably be wrong. Your job, is to just take in the info, put it down somewhere and when it clicks, you'll get it. Sometimes that's right away. But your job is not to figure it out. Let it land. Your guides delivered it the way they did for a reason.
•Make sure your energy is clean, because if not, it's not gonna make any sense anyways.
Get good at energy maintenance. We talked last week about what I do for my own energy maintenance and spiritual routines, get something like that going, and if you're new to the newsletter, I'll be posting these in archives to my website. Something easy but make sure it covers these basses: Movement, hydration, a grounding practice, an energy clearing practice ( I recommend Melanie Beckler's 5 minute angel cleanse on youtube, it's freeee!), an oracle deck or intuition jar, to check in with your team, and some quiet time to yourself, as well as some time with good friends that lift you up. These keep your energies nice and clear. Oh, bonus points for Reiki or Acupuncture, or adding Yoga or Tai-Chi as a way to keep your physical chi clear and make sure nothing is getting stuck.
•Let go of the need to figure it out. I know you're going to want to figure it out, but it really is best to let the info marinate, and write it down somewhere because 9/10, we got it wrong lol. The only way you can get really good at getting this the first time, is by getting really good at finding the patterns in what your guides share with you and how they come to light, and that... well, the journal will take care of that for you! Basically, you want to just take the info in and go...iiiinterestingggg...ok! And live your life. Until you get real good at connecting the patterns. It's like playing clue. And the way it works for EVERY SINGLE PERSON will be different. You can also ask them if you're not sure, and be like so I didn't get that. Can you bring me a resource to explain it to me?
Make a note of when the info came in, underneath it, what you think it means, and then leave space for an update, sometimes multiple, on what it actually means.
•Play games with them. If you got a message and you're like ??? but you think you know what it means. Select a confirmation object. Mine is blue birds! Select something you might not see around you every day. Blue birds is great because you can see them in books, around you, a song about a blue bird like it's not SO NICHE or SO COMMON that you doubt it. Choose something that has a personal meaning to you, that's yours, that you would never doubt. And anytime you don't understand something, ask them in your mind...
"Ok spirit guideee...I think what you said, means *this*. If I'm right, show me a blue bird.... ok? In the next 24 hours. If I'm wrong, show me I'm wrong by showing me...insert something else here that's the opposite of what you've selected. Maybe, a red bird, for this example.
If you see a blue bird and a red bird, tell your spirit guide to try harder lol. Ok not really, but you might want to tell them you need more nuance, because chances are, it might be a situation where its yes and no, or needs more info.
•Make an intuition jar. We've talked about this in other newsletter articles, and on my tiktok if you'd like to find out how! But, add some papers that say, HEY YOU GOT IT RIGHT!!! And, you're not quite on the money with your guidance. Try again. Additionally, something like "If we were playing hot and cold, you'd be in the arctic circle. Ask us again, and ask us to bring you the resources you need to understand." My other favourite is, explain it to me like i'm 5. Or, Hold my hand, spirit guides because I AM NOT GETTING IT... real slow, real simple, I have big feelings about this issue that are clouding my judgement.
•Drop the Tarot Cards. Back away slowly. Why? If you can't understand your guidance and are asking the same question over and over, you are going to struggle with understanding their answers. You are going to bring your bias into what you are trying to read. Try an intuition jar or an oracle instead or any of the aforementioned tips, and if you're really stuck, book a reading for your inner peace to return- we've all been there!
• Look at the patterns that emerge.
All of the information that comes to you will have patterns. It will become predictable in how it lands and what it means with enough practice. Please note if you aren't putting any effort into your team or understanding what they are saying, this is not going to come to fruition for you- they want to work with you. And that does require effort on your part, like trying to figure out the nuances and patterns. You will start to build a language with your spirit guides, and this should be included in your journal. This is going to help you get super speedy and accurate and trust your information.
Basically, deciphering the information your guides share with you can be really tricky but the more you train your relationship with them, the better. If you need help doing this, I do offer psychic mentorship sessions where I can help you learn how to connect with them to get the skinny right from them. They delight in explaining things to us, especially their jokes!
If you do want to take up some personal learning about spirit guides, my favourite resource is a book by Rachel Medium, and you can find it on amazon, called understanding mediumship and spirit guides- it has exercises that can help you understand your spirit guide and get to connecting with them on a deeper level.